Exclusive Photographs of Baby Amber Just Four Months Old, We Visit
Simon and Yasmin At Home
Hello 6 January 1990
interview: Maggie Koumi
the beginning of September, HELLO! published the first-ever photographs
of Simon and Yasmin with their three-day-old daughter Amber at the clinic
where she was born. Now we've visited them again to find out what's been
happening in their lives and to see how Amber has developed since that day.
When we arrived, Simon was busy having his familiar ponytail chopped
off, and music filled their stylish and very welcoming home. Simon and Yasmin
both love this house, tucked away in Chelsea, but are well aware that they
will have to move some day, when they hire a permanent nanny, as, realistically,
there just isn't the space to share with a stranger.
As Yasmin feels strongly that a baby should bond to its family, they
haven't started looking for anyone yet. Instead, Simon's young and very
attractive mother Ann-Marie left her home in Florida to help out the young
The fact that Ann-Marie once also worked in a maternity hospital is an
added bonus and eases any anxieties Simon and Yasmin may have had about
combining their roles as parents with their busy lifestyles.
couple are delighted with the arrangement. So is Ann-Marie who, having three
sons - Simon and his brothers David and Jonathon - really thinks of Yasmin
as her own daughter. And now, with her two grandchildren living in England,
she's thinking of moving back here - although if she does, she says she'll
keep her home in Florida as the ideal holiday place for the children.
So, with Amber in safe and more than capable hands, both Simon and Yasmin
have not only managed to continue their respective careers but are doing
more, professionally, than ever before. This they attribute to the birth
of their daughter, who has inspired them and injected them with added energy
Yasmin, who soon after the birth took part in the London, Paris and New
York shows - also recently appeared in a cruelty-free fashion show initiated
by the Lynx anti-fur campaigners.
Simon has been even busier. Apart from the release of the Decade
album and video - celebrating ten years of Duran Duran's existence - the
band have also
released the megamix single Burning the Ground, which contains 12
bits of the 14 songs on the Decade album.
Now Simon says he's getting an extra energy kick from going to the studio
where the band are recording their new album that's due to be released in
they were preparing for Christmas, we spoke to Yasmin and Simon about their
work and their feelings as new parents.
Yasmin, what was the very first thing you did when you got home from
the clinic with Amber?
"Give a big sigh of relief, I think! They were great in the clinic
but you get fed up with someone coming in every few hours telling you to
do things in a different way. I wanted to get home because I knew I could
deal with Amber myself."
Simon: "The most important thing for us was to get into a routine
as quickly as possible. You also have to get the baby used to being at home."
Were you inundated with visitors wanting to see the baby?
Y: "Yes, and it is the new mother's nightmare, because you're absolutely
exhausted and everything is still so brand-new. Lots of people want to come
round and you feel that you have to entertain them, yet you still have to
take care of the baby.
"But everyone has been so generous. Grandparents, friends, even
fans, have given her the most extraordinary gifts. All I had to but were
Amber beginning to react to things around her?
Y: "Oh, yes, she's so alert. I didn't think a four-month-old baby
could be so interesting. She's funny, just like a little comedian. The things
she does make me laugh all the time. For example, when we bathe her and
lay her on a towel, she kicks her legs till she hits herself on the stomach,
then giggles. She talks a lot too, chatters constantly. I don't know why
she has so much to say, but she does!"
Simon's mother has obviously been a great help by coming to take care
"I have to say she's heaven sent. To have your family with you is
just so comfortable. Simon's at ease and we both have a very special relationship
with her. She's a very special person."
At some stage though, presumably she won't always be able to be with
you, so why didn't you opt for a permanent nanny from the start?
"I think I'd find it difficult to have a stranger around right at
the start. I also think that when a baby begins to get close to somebody,
it should be family. That's a natural and
"When I went to Los Angeles on a job recently, I was only away three
days, but they were the longest three days of my life. It was a shock. So
when I had to work in New York for a week, I took Amber with me because
that's a very long time in a baby's life."
Simon, what have you been busy doing during this time?
"I've been in the studio most of the time, working on our new album
to be released in the Spring. Chris Kimsey, who produced the Rolling Stones
album, is producing it, and it's a major statement of my and the band's
"It's kind of difficult to equate that with having a new child in
the house. I've got this thing I've been involved in for ten years - music
- then I come home to this
very special atmosphere here. There's a lot of love in the house, and it
actually gives inspiration - a joy and a feeling that I can take into the
studio with me.
"It's very easy to get wrapped up in the family - and sometimes
I have to force myself to go to the studio, but I do because that's my job.
Yasmin feels the same way when she has to leave the house. But you have
to remind yourself that work, too, is part of the machinery of the family,
part of the fuel and the driving energy of the family. It also supports
the family, of course. We're talking about something which gives us security
and so it gives Amber her future security.
"We haven't become just a family unit which doesn't do anything
else. Because of Amber, we have more energy and drive than we ever did before.
Yasmin is more serious about her work and about looking good and being in
shape, than she's ever been before, too. And she'd never have taken on jobs
like those in America before."
Why is that, Yasmin?
"Before, I didn't want the hassle of travelling, or of leaving Simon.
I would never organise things. Now my life is turned around. I've become
much more professional."
And you both relate that directly to the birth of Amber?
S: "Yes. You suddenly think: I can go one of two ways now, I can
either settle down with the family and end my career or I can give my work
all the energy and excitement I feel now. Having a child makes you see how
many more personal possibilities you have. In my case, it gives me the incentive
to go and make the best record the group's ever made. It gives Yasmin the
incentive to appear in the best photographs ever."
Yasmin, with your plans to travel more, how will Amber fit in?
"If I have to work in a different country for a week or more, she'll
go with me."
does mean more work because you have to plan how to fit the baby in, how
to keep her happy and comfortable, yet still to get on with the life and
the jobs that you have to get on with. Workwise, in the case of Duran Duran,
we are going to be around for another decade."
Yasmin, how do you feel about Simon's work?
"It's a major part of both our lives. I'm wrapped up in it, I always
have been. I can't not be. If this man is not happy, then I'm not happy.
While he's so enthusiastic and enjoys music so much, and loves being in
a band which is happy together and doing great things, it also affects me."
S: "And how we feel affects Amber."
Yasmin, you seem more concerned with Simon's career than you own.
"I've always supported him. To be honest, if I didn't like what
he does musically, then I would never have married the man. It's such a
huge part of his life. You have to love
what your partner does, otherwise your relationship doesn't have a hope
in hell. So it's always been important."
Music is so obviously part of your lives and I remember, when you
were at the clinic, you said you wanted to surround Amber with it. What's
"When Simon's out of the house, we're too busy to have music on,
but when we do she loves it. More so if you dance with her. She loves being
around people and can't stand to think there's something going on without
Yasmin, have you ever felt a moment of guilt for not being with Amber
24 hours a day at this early stage in her life?
"Yes, quite constantly. Your natural instinct is to be with your
child all the time and if you do anything else but that, you feel
But perhaps it's not guilt, but just feeling upset because you want to be
But with the kind of lifestyles you both lead, have you never felt
that a baby could be a bit of a handicap?
Y: "If you ever feel like that, all you have to do is pick her up
and put her on your lap. The moment she smiles at you nothing else matters,
everything else falls by the wayside."
S: "It means more activity. I won't say work because looking after
you own child isn't work. It means you have to plan things a bit better
and you have to take the child into consideration when making your plans.
But we're very lucky, as we'll always have someone to look after Amber.
And we can do that by maintaining our careers."
And has the experience so far with Amber made you more, or less, determined
to have other children?
Y: "We're definitely going to have more. I'd never have had Amber
if I'd thought she'd be an only child. I think only children are lonely
and generally can be spoilt. Also, children look after each other, play,
fight, love and hate together. There's always activity."
how many more children do you think you would both like?
"I'd like three or four. But I don't think Simon's quite ready for
that just yet!"
Ideally, what would you like your next child to be?
"I'd like to have both sexes. If I have another girl, I'll just
carry on until I get a boy! I never had a brother, so I'd like to have a
How is Simon as a father?
"He's completely besotted. I find it so touching. There are times
when she's having a bath and he'll come in with tears in his eyes. He just
gets so overwhelmed because Amber is so beautiful."
Yasmin, what's the main difference you have noticed now that you're
"I'm just filled with more love than I ever thought I could be.
And it has made a huge impact on our relationship. Simon and I were always
incredibly loving anyway, but having Amber has heightened all those emotions."